We're all tempted to each other symbolically or as a summary rather than as we really are in detail - including all the greatness and flaws.
Until we see through this filter, we'll never stop feeling frustrated with each other or making shortsighted decisions that don't fully consider each other.
Pause. Pray. Live and relate more deeply.
"For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully." (1 Corinthians 13:12)