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leading without power

My buddy Mark Oestreicher has a great blog series he's writing on "Leading Without Power." He's essentially unpacking some content I heard him share at the National Youth Worker's Convention.

(part 1, overview; part 2, competency facilitator; part 3, culture evangelist; part 4, mission curator, part 5, storytelling host, part 6, champion of hope)

On Part 7, he explores the idea of a "Uniqueness DJ" who looks for ways to connect people to opportunities, versus the other way around. He offers this example
For years, in youth ministry, I utilized a highly articulated ‘job description’ for volunteers. The thinking was (and i had been taught this, and subsequently taught this myself in many seminars) that youth ministry volunteers would flourish is they knew what was expected. I read that sentence now, and I think, what a dehumanizing approach to people. I would approach this very differently today. After the shared values of the ministry are discerned and articulated, I would work with each volunteer, based on his or her strengths, interests, experiences and competencies, to help him or her develop a unique plan for embodying our values in the context of their youth ministry calling. and, I would be intentional about how these unique works of art, made in the image of God, can experience something greater than themselves by bringing their uniqueness to the whole.

That reminded me of something I learned while watching the commentary on the first DVD of the TV series LOST. While a number of roles were “pre-written,” most of the show was cast or re-categorized based on the actors who came in to audition. For example, the character “Jack” (who eventually became the linchpin of the show) was originally conceived to die in the first episode. The “Kate’ character was going to be the leader of the group after that. “Jack” was planned he would be played by Michael Keaton versus Matthew Fox… that is, until they met Matthew Fox.

Even cooler – “Hurley” never existed in the script. When the actor who played him auditioned, he originally tried out to play the smooth-talking ladies man “Sawyer.” The DVD shows that video, during which we see a “Hurley-ism” come out that the writers and producers liked enough to create a character around.

Basically, what made the show what it was wasn’t a job description, but that people were sniffed out for what they could offer, and a job description was written around them.

The only time I’ve felt this way outside of my current situation was when I was serving under an innovative pastor who would ask me to rewrite my job description and goals every year. This activity was to consider where I was at in life, what I wasn’t capable of this year that I may have been last year (i.e. due to changes in family), and where I sensed God wanted things to go that may have been shifts from how we were doing things. I looked forward to this process because of the freedom it allowed me to grow, and integrated it into how I personally lead others.

Or as Marko put it, a “Uniqueness DJ.”

As a side note, the world doesn’t work this way, and people may still ask to get the 2-dimensional job description that they will attempt to live 3-dimensionally in. If you give them a better way, some may embrace it… but others will struggle. It may even that may lead to issues within the group of leaders you serve that will surface if a strong personality comes in and wonders why everyone else isn’t acting like life in the business world.

Maybe that’s why he chose the word “DJ,” though – because it involves coming up with remixes on the spot. Meaning, this thinking doesn’t just apply to the personality of the individual, but to the “personality” of the whole group, too.
"We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. " (Romans 12:6a)

all personal feelings about LeBron James aside...

Every one has an opinion about LeBron James... including those who don't have an opinion of him.

Maybe that's why this new commercial is so intriguing.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdtejCR413c

a treadmill you can't keep up with

It's been said that what you attract people with is what you have to use to keep them interested, constantly outdoing yourself over and over again with a slightly more twisted variety of the last version you produced.

Kind of like a treadmill you can't keep up with.

Perhaps you've seen this in the world you live in, as something as simple as a lie to get attention can quickly become about telling another lie... and yet another.

My oldest son observed that the "second movie" in a franchise or the "second season" of a television series is often a bit darker than the first. As if the creators need to throw out even more crazy things to get the attention of viewers than before.

That kind of lines up with an intriguing New York Times article I read on Miley Cyrus and her latest career maneuvers.  Maybe you heard about her infamous "strip pole" segment at the Teen Choice Awards some time ago, but that's only scratching the surface.
You might think that it would be worried, overprotective mothers who would rebel against the overt sexualization of the teenage star Miley Cyrus, who became a pop phenomenon as Hannah Montana on the Disney Channel hit show. But no. It’s the young girls who think Ms. Cyrus has gone too far. And many of them are moving on.

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This post isn't really about Miley Cyrus, though.  It's about you and me.

Have you ever considered how much energy you spend trying to keep people impressed and interested in your life?  How much of it is surface level, smoke and mirrors?

How much of it is legitimate because something you're allowing something legitimate to happen in you?
"Summing it all up, friends, I'd say you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies." (Philippians 4:8, MSG)

conan o'brien's spin on larry king

"Larry King’s retiring after hosting “Larry King Live” for 25 years. Personally, I think hosting anything longer than 7 months is overkill." - Conan O'Brien

Read more about Larry King's retirement here:
http://www.examiner.com/x-704-Pop-Media-Examiner~y2010m6d30-Larry-King-show-to-end-after-25-years-nearly-50000-interviews--Piers-Morgan-to-step-in

going loco for coco

I really enjoy people whose self-deprecating humor only makes them more likable:
"In three months I've gone from network television to Twitter to performing live in theaters, and now I'm headed back to basic cable. My plan is working perfectly."- Conan O'Brien
In case you missed the news, O'Brien (who has been doing a live comedy tour only to be sure that all the people that used to work for him on the Tonight Show had a paying job this year) signed a deal recently for a late night talk show on TBS during the 11pm slot. 

Wait - does that mean that in bumping George Lopez to an hour later he will be crushing Lopez's childhood dream of having a late night talk show on TBS? :)

Actually, Lopez is fired up in the best way possible.  Check out a quick summary of his comments this week here: http://www.tmz.com/videos?autoplay=true&mediaKey=884d725f-5545-4ce9-b3d1-6038f54c66c0





Which, to me, only underscores the beauty of teamwork.  Lopez is well aware that Conan's presence and lead-in will only add to his own success at the midnight slot.  Great stuff, and an even greater attitude.

there's something about Oprah... I mean, Mary

Interesting insight I just came across regarding Oprah Winfrey via a USA Today article:
What (Kitty) Kelley discovered while investigating Winfrey was, not surprisingly, her need to be in control, plus what Kelley calls Winfrey's "world of secrets."

Winfrey makes all employees sign confidentiality agreements — and if she is spoken about in public, they have to refer to her as Mary, not Oprah, just in case someone is eavesdropping.
Huh.

What do you think - while this is "smart" of Oprah to maintain whatever image she wants the public to have of her, is it "too much" or inauthentic?