Showing posts with label fully-alive living. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fully-alive living. Show all posts

how do you do it?

I spend a large part of my week connecting with various people inside and outside of my church. The one theme I keep running into is how maxed out so many of our lives are. 

How do you do it?

Whatever your role in life, you likely spent the last week doing one or more of the following:
  • Public Speaker: you had one or more situations where whatever you said was before an audience expecting you to say just the right thing in just the right way
  • Font of Wisdom: you were expected to know the answers… backward and forward... so someone feeling backward could go forward
  • Visionary: you felt the burden of keeping a keen eye on circumstances, culture and the horizon so you could tell others
  • Therapist: you listened to others share their problems, and you did this with actual empathy
  • Writer/Editor: you felt burdened to say something, yet wondered if you should - and if you should say it, how you should say it
  • Evangelist: you remembered Jesus' command to reach new people for Him and took a step to do so
  • Trainer: you shared your experience with others who were eager to learn
  • Disciplinarian: you confronted something/someone needing it in order to make things better
  • Iron Chef: you took whatever was in your cupboard and made a masterpiece out of it - even though not everyone else thought so
  • Cheerleader: you became someone's biggest fan, even if it meant looking foolish
  • Doctor: you tended to the wound of another person, be it a physical need or something intangible
  • Public Relations: you engaged the community at large somehow for something you believe in, be it personally or on social media
  • Prayer Warrior: you unleashed your heart to God and invited Him to unleash His heart into you
  • CEO: you hustled for the sake of "many" and yet stepped up so that the buck could stop with someone - "you"
  • Fundraiser: you looked at the numbers on hand so they could be best managed and multiplied
  • Special Events Coordinator: you managed a schedule for others so they could be appropriately be challenged, entertained and kept busy
  • Chauffeur: you got everyone where they needed to be while driving between the lines
  • Diplomat: you helped navigate change with the right words so people would keep the right focus
  • Janitor: you did the ugly work so people would have a clean perspective
  • Actor: you somehow pulled all of this off, not losing i

I can only imagine the thought of doing it all once, let alone again, is enough to send any of us under our covers not wanting to get out of bed.

How do you do it?
"And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him." (Colossians 3:17)

in between

There is a moment in the middle...

in between the old and new thing...

called many things.

It's true name is transformation

Instead of pining for the old or the new, lean into this moment right now.
"And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit." (2 Corinthians 3:18)

Go on...

right now...

swing. 




TGIF?

TGIF?

Just a thought - you can just aim for the next temporary buzz, or actually thank God it's Friday by finding real joy in how you live today:
  • Look people in the eye, giving them all of your attention.
    It offers worth to the person.
  • Tell the truth, even if it means you have to appear foolish.
    It fosters integrity to your life.
  • Own a situation you should have handled differently, even if it feels "in the past" or you'd rather not acknowledge where you dropped the ball.It restores value to the relationship.
  • Make a difference by helping restore people and things back to their original, created God-given purpose.
    It adds vision to everything you do.

Or, you know... just live for the next temporary buzz.

As for me and my household, though... I'm all in.
"Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve... but as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24:15)

an honest, gutsy spiritual growth plan - pt 2

Buckle up - this is part two. Go read part one if you haven't.

After asking the questions from before, now what? What’s the plan? Will you avoid nudges from God or radically throw yourself in the direction He’s pointing you, any way you can? Who will you tell so that you actually follow through all year? What will you do today?

Enough questions... start running the bases.

You’re likely familiar with how a baseball diamond works. Use it as a metaphor to grow - as the "bases of Fully-Alive Living":
  • H: Christ – come as you are to Him today, and make Him your Savior/Lord over the direction and details of your life.

  • 1: Character – let the Holy Spirit “have at you” from the inside-out as you put Him first in all things.... not just first, but first in all things.

  • 2: Church community – grow w/others in large, medium and small gatherings.Why? Because you have blind spots, and only others can see them. A church is meant to nurture those with encouragement and truth.

  • 3: Calling – find your “circle” of gifting and influence.

  • H: Christ – home plate comes around again, just like you need to take another step with Him, including intentionally sharing Him with others you can help “run the bases.”

  • Baselines: This journey isn’t just about the defining moments when you feel you’re “on base,” but also the journey that gets you there. You’ll need to invest into people, programs and practices that will help you keep moving forward while you help them keep moving forward.

Here's the deal - you have to run these bases in the right order. The world runs it backward. Don’t fall for the trap of putting work/ministry ahead of community, community (church) ahead of character, or character (morality) ahead of Christ. God isn’t just looking for “good people” who do “good things” – come as you are, take your next step with Him, and BE the Church.

Today's step: Take this all in, and take on whatever it takes on what you sense God is saying or guiding you to do next.
"Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose." (Philippians 2:12)

my personal growth plan... today, that is

I'm often asked a question that I was asked again last week. I thought I'd share it here for anyone whom it may benefit. 

The Question: So what are you doing or reading in order to have an answer (to theological questions that come up) and stay thirsty for God, etc?


My response: That's a tricky question, because my spiritual disciplines today reflect the foundation of my spiritual disciplines in days, weeks, months and years past. In everything I read or engage in, I am seeking four things:
  • How can I increase my awareness of what God is doing in a person/situation/me? (This drives me to become more intimate with the Holy Spirit)

  • How can I identify what is truth, what is opinion and what is a lie? (This drives me to read the Bible, certain books based on what I am dealing with or talking about, and so on)

  • How can I say "YES!" to God quicker today than I did yesterday in whatever He leads me in, even if I don't understand why? (This drives me to become more obedient, courageous and a bigger-than-I-can-see-thinker in everyday things)

  • How can help someone take one more step in God's direction in an area I have no authority in? (This drives me to not rely on my personal channels of authority, such as being a pastor or writer, to do all my evangelism but pushes me into new areas where I have to rely on God?)

  • How can I not only know the facts of what is coming up on the horizon culturally/theologically, but be in a place where I've asked the first and second round of questions about it? (This drives me to make sure I am not just recycling my faith and photocopying my walk with God from year to year)
Some books that have rocked my world with their presentation and/or helped me minister to others this past year:

There are others, of course, and some of it I read to help me know how to serve others. There are some real tragedies in my midst (situations I can't share publicly). I mean, you have to dig deep to sidestep the temptation to spout off cliches or easy answers.

So that's a slice of my life today, but like I said - it takes into account my past attempts to make progress in this area. I didn't know much of anything about Jesus Christ until my junior year of high school. I still feel like I'm playing catch up - maybe that's what helps... I never feel like I know enough.

I know I'll never have this down pat, but I do think God does. To paraphrase Rich Mullins, the Bible wasn't given to us so we can prove how right we are; the Bible was given to us to show how right God is and how the rest of us are just guessing without Him. I'd say that's good motivation to jump into it and do more than read it - rather, let it read us.
But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect. (1 Peter 3:15)

a letter to my younger self

[ From my weekly newspaper column "Fully-Alive Living" ]

I have a birthday this week.

No presents, please. Just throw money.

Actually, I’m not a “birthday dropper.” Some people perpetually hint for a gift by mentioning their upcoming birthday. I like comedian Jim Gaffigan’s response to these indirect propositions:
“Hey, just want to let you know, next Tuesday is my birthday.” 
“Just want to let you know, I'm not getting you anything.”
When people find out it’s your birthday they inevitably want to know how old you are. I’ve always been comfortable with my age at any age, but noticed people grade it from where they’re at:
  • When I turned 21: “Oh, you’re 21? (pauses) Now… I remember 21… (stares off to look somewhere) 21… twenty-one… twennnn-ty-onnnne…"

  • When I turned 30: “Welcome to my world, sucker. Embrace the decade of love handles and treadmills. Muh-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!”

  • When I turned 35: “Dude, you’re like… as old as my dad.”
People in my church like not knowing how old I am. It somehow lets me be old enough to speak wisdom into their life, but young enough that I can hang out on a road trip with teenagers. Apparently I can quote Kierkegaard and end my sentence with, “Like, you know?”

So if you’ll indulge me, I want to write a letter to my younger self. Imagine if you really could do this and they’d get it – what would you say?

(And no, you can’t just share stock investments and TV show plots.)

--- Read the rest: "A LETTER TO MY YOUNGER SELF"

social (media) responsibility

Apparently we're all members of the media now. How is that responsibility affecting your personality?

Check out today's article, "Facing Your Electronic Persona," from my weekly newspaper column in the Cleveland suburbs "Fully Alive Living."

It just may help you better understand how you're "virtually" interacting with the world.